The good news is that Mom is comfortable and doesn't seem to be in any pain. She's extremely tired but is in sound mind. She is in St. Anthony Health Care Center and they are taking good care of her. We had the Hospice representative in today and brings us all comfort that they will make sure all is comfortable for Mom in these final days. Mom is no longer eating regularly and tells us she is ready for the final chapter. Or pull the plug as she puts it. The pastor from Grace Church will be by in the morning and will facilitate communion for her. Mom is too weak for visitors but wants folks to know she appreciates so many folks well wishes and love.
We took Dad down to a psychiatric hospital down in Hastings yesterday. They specialize in getting brain chemistry right as Dad has been largely "on another planet" for a couple of weeks. It is heartbreaking for us of course to have to facilitate both care for Dad's advance Parkinson's condition and tend to Mom, and not be able to do it at their home. But we have done the best we can to get them both the best care that is available.
Scott, thanks for the blog. I am sending loving thoughts to yall. I've always loved getting to spend time with your folks. They have a special place in my heart and memories. Raylene
ReplyDeleteScott -- the blog is a good thing for you to do. Know that we are hoping for the best courses that can take place in the situations you're dealing with. I believe very little in life is more difficult than "parenting your parents," and that you and your brother are doing a very good job. Please know you are in our thoughts daily with love.
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